Cat Tales with Laura and Inspirations with Laura

Territorial Cat Fights

I have had Tom cats leave other Tom Cats all scratched up and with pieces of their ear missing. Tom cats are very fierce fighters when it comes to defending their territory. One stray Tom came to our place once, and our three resident Toms had him running for the hills. I had a female cat beat up another female cat that was not fixed, like she was, and it was terrible, as she left her bloody and hurting.

Cat Fights In The Middle Of The Night

I have been woken up by growling and howling catfights in the middle of the night. They may continue fighting each other for hours until one of them backs down and leaves the scene.

Resident Tom

The resident top Tom cat will generally always win the catfights until a younger Tom cat wins the fight and gains the former Tom’s territory. It is sad to see your senior Tom beat up and bleeding because he is no longer able to keep up the stamina and maneuvers that a young Tom had.

Cat Fights Against Wild Animals

Cats that take on skunks or rats will end up with parts of their face bitten up and maybe an ear or perhaps an eye missing. Cats can easily kill a rabbit or a mouse and eat it. Cats do not stand a chance against a fox, wolf, or coyote, as they will grab the cat and shake it to death or bite it in the neck. Please ensure that your house cats are kept indoors at all times, or provide a metal enclosure for them if they are outdoors. If your cat sneaks outdoors, quickly find it and return it to the safety of your home. A declawed cat does not stand a chance as an outdoor cat, since it has no way to defend itself.

Cat Fights With Dogs

Generally, if a cat gets into a fight with a dog, it will be severely injured or killed. Most cats and dogs do not get along well, though there are a few exceptions, of course. We had a small dog that absolutely loved cats. Our dog would share her dog house with them and babysit the Mother cats’ kittens while she was out hunting. Later on, our small dog and the Mother cat went out hunting together as they both would catch mice. Our small dog once caught a mouse, but our cat took it from our dog. However, our small dog managed to retrieve it and swallow the mouse.

After A Horrible Fight, Acess Your Cat And See If They Need Medical Treatment

If your cat is in horrible pain or bleeding profusely, take them to your vet as soon as possible. If you think you can treat them or if you have medicine or bandages at home, use those. If your cat is not getting better, take them to your vet and do not hesitate to do so, as it may be a matter of life or death for your dear feline friend. I hope your cat never gets into a horrible fight of any kind.

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People With An Inferiority Complex

Post author By Laura Weers
Post date October 10, 2025
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People Who Feel Bad About Themselves

They will generally put others down and never praise them for their accomplishments in life, as they are also jealous. They may criticize your blog post. They may say you have too many of something, or they constantly disagree with what you have written. All of us are entitled to our own opinions, but do not put other people down because you are jealous of their accomplishments. Go out into the world and do things that help others, as this should elevate your self-esteem. Life throws all of us a hardball now and then, but it is all about how we rise above it. We should help others in the same situation we may have been in previously.

People Who Always See The Clouds And Never The Sun

Some days will bring you great joy, and other days will give you great sorrow, as that is just part of life. I always like sunny days as they stimulate me to get more done than on cloudy days. Cloudy days are a good time to read a book and call people to brighten their day, helping them see the sun through the clouds. Remember, every day can be bright and shiny if you set your mind to make it that way.

All Gloom And Doom

After I talk to someone with this attitude, it drains me. God makes a huge difference in our lives every day, uplifting us and bringing joy, hope, love, and peace into our lives daily. Try to stay away from gloom and doom people, as you do not want to let them lead you down that road. There is always light at the end of every tunnel if you want to look for it.

God Made All Of Us, And He Did Not Make Anyone Any Better Than Anyone Else

No one is inferior to anyone. God created each of us in His image, and we are here for a specific purpose: to help God and others in life. We help God by being one of His God shepherds, assisting people in need, being kind and considerate of their needs, and supporting them with the struggles they may be facing. Never make fun of anyone; you don’t know their story, as you only see the cover and haven’t read the chapters of their life. Some people have chapters in their lives that have caused them great pain and sorrow.

Helpful And Not So Helpful

If your opinions of someone are not nice, keep them to yourself. People are not always perfect in their behavior, as they may not be feeling well at that moment. Never tell someone you don’t look so well today, as they probably already know they don’t look their best. Helpful people lift you up, take you to Doctors’ appointments, and genuinely care about your overall well-being. Never tell someone you look so well when they have told you they have medical issues, as they will take that you do not believe them. Treat everyone as you would want to be treated, and everyone will be happy and hopeful.

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How To Buy Items

Buying Power

Shop around at various stores for what you are looking for. Do not be in a hurry to buy an item if you can live without it for a while, as the longer the store has it, the more likely they are to lower the price. I waited to buy a clock for some time, and eventually the store reduced the price considerably. Buying in volume helps. I generally deal with the store owner, and he is aware that I will be purchasing power tools, refrigerators, carpet rolls, clothing, and other goods from him on a regular basis. As a result, I receive a much better deal on my purchases.

Buying A Vehicle

When shopping for a vehicle, contact at least four dealerships and compare the prices to find the lowest one for your dream vehicle. This will give you some leverage in buying the vehicle at the car dealer of your choice, as they will try to match or outbid the price if possible. You can still sweeten the deal by asking for a year of free oil changes and a reduction in the continued warranty coverage plan.

Money Takes A Long Time To Accumulate

Money does not grow on trees, so you have to save some whenever you can. I used to buy water heaters from my local hardware store, and they had a six-year warranty that they always stood behind. They were a well-known brand at a reasonable price.

Buying A Vacuum Cleaner From The Door To Door Salesman

They start with a price of about $1500.00, which is absurd, and after they have shown you that your carpet was filthy, so to speak, by the dirt they suck out of it, they will say What do you have to trade in and they will offer you about $100.00 for your old vacuum. The next thing they try to do to entice you to buy it is to give you a good deal on shampooing, grinding, and other attachments that will fit onto their vacuum. If you tell them you will pay $ 400.00 for it, as they are leaving, you will be the proud owner of a new vacuum that has a lot of suction and will last you a lifetime.

Trade In Your Old Lawn Mower

Contact several implement companies to determine what they are asking for a used mower like yours, and then you will know its worth. Contact several dealers selling a new mower that you want, and you will be informed of all the prices. I called dealers up to 100 miles away, and then my local dealer matched their price; they also service my mowers. This works for whatever you want to trade, and your local dealer also gets to know that you have it serviced at their location on a regular basis. As a result, they are willing to pay more for your trade-in.

Make Sure You Buy A Brand-Name Item

Buying something just because it’s on sale at a cheap price will cost you much more down the road. We purchased a recliner years ago that was not a brand-name product, and the mechanism wore out in only three years. Ceiling fans do not last unless you buy a tried-and-true brand. I always buy appliances from reputable brands such as Whirlpool, GE, Hamilton Beach, and KitchenAid. The electronic items I always purchased were name-brand computers, printers, and other devices.

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Confidence

Confidence Issues

Please do not listen to someone when they tell you you can not do something; prove them wrong instead. When someone tells me I cannot do something, I get into high gear. I am more determined than ever to do it and get it done quickly and professionally. When we buy a new electronic item, it can be not very comforting to set it up and get it up and running correctly. Even when we buy a new vehicle today, it must be set up to receive all the latest updates. Once, my SUV would not start for 24 hours because it had started doing an update as it turned off. It never said it was going to do an update. I am glad that only happened once. I was close to home, and a friend helped me out. I cannot stand it when computer glitches cause you to lose all of the work you just did.. I had that happen, but I just rewrote my whole article again while it was fresh in my mind. Confidence in ourselves helps us get through problems, and we will eventually solve them on our own or with a friend’s help and with God by our side.

Confidence In New Products

I do not have much confidence in the items that they make today. Appliances last only about eight years, whereas they used to last 20 to 50 years. Everything is made from cheaper, thinner metal and electronic parts that cannot withstand the test of time. We have to get back to a society that is not about throwing away products and takes pride in what we build and manufacture for the general public to use in their homes, businesses, on the road, communication, etc.

Confidence In Your Home Builder

Make sure you build a home with a contractor who has been in business for many years. Call people he has built homes for and see how satisfied they are with their new homes. Find out if he used lumber that was not up to par or cut corners on the kind of shingles he installed on your roof, flooring, windows, doors, windows, plumbing fixtures, and appliances that he may include. Ensure you have everything in writing on how and what he will use to build your new home and a definite timeline for when it will be completed and ready to move into. I would not recommend building a prefab home. I had hired a manufacturer with excellent references, but sometimes, that does not help you. I had a prefab home built years ago, and they cut corners right and left. They did not clean up the job site whatsoever. They had me use a piece of wood with nails already in it for the railing as it was used to hold the lumber together. The doors in the home were hollow honeycomb doors; they had lots of trouble wiring the home, and they did not know how to install the siding correctly. I had to tell them how to install the siding. The shingles on the home were just stapled on, and in one wind storm, about 50 shingles came off in one area, and I had to hire a roofer to reinstall new shingles. In a miniature print, you could not see that it was mentioned that they would not clean up their job site. The company went out of business in about three years. Even when something is in writing, sometimes they can cut corners so it is still legal by an inch of the law. Make sure you place your confidence with the right people, company, or products.

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Cats And How They get Each Other In Trouble

Cats And How They Get Each Other In Trouble

Post author By Laura Weers
Post date September 28, 2025
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Siamese Cats: Our Masters Of Deception

Siamese seem to know how to work everything to their advantage quickly and effectively. They seem to be able to execute plans to get their housemates in trouble. One time, my older Siamese cat knocked over the Christmas tree, and she had never done anything like that before. She left my new young male cat under the tree as if to tell me what happens when you bring a youngster into your home. Well, the shig was up when I saw her tugging at a bulb on the tree later on in the day. One time, I let my older Siamese cat outdoors, and she beat up my resident outdoor Tom. He did not fight back, so I knew she had instigated the match. When I first brought my new Siamese cat into our home, I couldn’t find her hiding spot for a month, until one day she emerged from a box of stored Christmas decorations.

Young Cats And Older Cats

Cats will quickly try to establish who has top rank in your home. Your main house cats will try to instill this into the newcomer quickly. If he tries to pounce on one of them, they will strike him in the face with one or two good slaps. Your young cat will try to surprise-attack your housecats, which makes them very angry indeed with the new cat, and he soon learns to forget trying to do that. Unfortunately, as your cats continue to age, the young cat will be able to pull some rank privileges, and it is your job not to let it get out of control. Always talk to your young cat firmly from the start if he becomes overly aggressive with your other cats. Training and learning begin from the very first day of introductions. I hope your cats will love each other and live in perfect harmony for many happy and healthy years.

Cats Love It. When The Young Cat Causes Chaos

One time, my older cat noticed the young cat taking the wings off a bird Christmas ornament. She looked at him and me and said, in the look on her face, ‘Do you want that cat that doesn’t know the difference between a real and a fake bird for one of your house cats?’ We were kind of on the same wavelength. He was a brilliant cat, but he had one weak moment in his thought pattern as he must have wanted to eat a real bird that day, and he had to settle for the action of taking the wings off a fake bird. Your older cats love it when the new cat is running through your home, breaking things in his path, and they think he is going to get it now. Your cats seem to forget very quickly that they, too, used to be young and fancy free. May God bless all our cats and may they get along well in their relationships with one another, even when disagreements arise from time to time.

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People That Are Users

People That Always Take And Never Give

Some people are always looking for a handout even though they have plenty. It is terrible when a wealthy person goes to a food bank and asks for food, as they are robbing a truly needy person who desperately needs the food to survive. One day, I was sitting in a place waiting, and two affluent women were bragging about how they had received free food and a dozen roses from a church. I thought they should be ashamed of themselves, but they thought they were cute and clever. Someday, they will get their just dues for what they did. One group of women was bragging about how they received free toys for their kids from three different charities that provide toys for children in need at Christmas time, if their families cannot afford them. One woman got a new bike from all three charities and probably resold the other two. People like that take away from impoverished families, and I do not know how they can sleep at night when they know they are robbing poor people.

It is Horrible When One Takes Advantage Of Someone

Never take advantage of anyone, tell the truth, and treat others with respect, kindness, and love. It is awful when people prey on older people and keep asking them for money. Older adults have worked very hard for their money over the years, and they need every penny they have to make ends meet. I have no time whatever for this kind of person, and they make me furious when I hear they bilked $200,000,00 from an elderly lady, and that was her entire savings, and now she is penniless and she cannot afford a nursing home, medicine, or groceries. Be cautious about who you trust and consider their track record with others, as it will reveal a great deal about them. On judgment day, these people will have a lot to answer for.

The Person That Always Wants Everything Their Way

If you do not have give and take in a marriage, it will not last long. One must be able to compromise so everyone is happy. Let others pick the restaurant they would like to eat at, and it can be your turn the next time. Some people always want a particular booth or table at church or a restaurant; if it is taken, move over one and don’t make a fuss about it. Not everything can be done on your schedule, as other people also have things on their agendas. Compromise is the key to a happy life for all concerned.

The User That Won’t Back Down

Be extremely careful of this type of user. They keep taking and taking until they leave nothing for you. They have broken your spirit and torn you apart. Never allow anyone to do that to you. Distance yourself from that person ASAP. If they call, don’t answer or report them to the police department. You are your best advocate for your protection. Don’t let anyone pull the wool over your eyes, as they are truly wolves in sheep’s clothing. God bless you and keep you safe from those who use and exploit others in the world.

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Cats And Eating Disagreements

Cats And Disagreements

Food Dishes

Some cats can get upset if another house cat eats out of their food dish. It is wise to clean your food dishes to prevent the spread of germs. After all, we would not want to eat food on a plate that was not washed. I prefer stainless steel or Pyrex bowls for my cats’ bowls. Plastic bowls harbor germs in the scratches that develop over time due to daily use, and the bacteria breed and form in these scratches. Have plenty of food dishes for your cats to avoid fights over food.

Water Bowls

Have at least two water bowls in your home, so if one gets tipped over, your cats will still have access to fresh water. Cats need to have fresh water every day, just as we do, for optimal health and kidney function. Cool water also helps cool them off on a hot day. I have stainless steel heated water bowls that you can plug in in the winter months, so your cats always have a supply of water. Water bowls should be heavy enough that your cat cannot easily tip them over. Most stainless steel ones are perfect.

Cats Toys

Cats can get very upset if another cat plays with their favorite toy. Most likely, a fight will occur until the other cat realizes that that particular toy is off-limits. Cats have a preference for specific colors of toys over others. Male cats tend to play with more male-oriented toys, while females prefer toys featuring pink balls, birds, or toy mice with light colors. There are, of course, always exceptions.

Cat Beds

Cat beds can sometimes be a significant problem. If another cat happens to sleep in their favorite cat bed, they may pee on it, so the other cat cannot use it, and then, of course, neither can they, but they figure they have won. Cats will also pee on cat towers, mostly when they are getting older, as it seems to be their way of telling you they want a new one. My cats know that if they try this, there will be no replacement coming for a long time, or they will get a cheaper version that is not as plush and comfortable as the old one was. A way to stop this is to put three garbage bags over the bed, tied tightly, and then place a towel over that.

Litter Boxes

Cats have a favorite litter box, and if you move it, they may stop using it, or if you buy a new one that is either deeper or smaller than the old one. Cats do not like changes, and they will often rebel against changes in their lives that they dislike. My cats love their automatic litter boxes. I placed catnip in them, and they have never stopped using them, not even for an instant. I purchased a stainless steel litter box, and my cats took to it immediately. Be patient and kind to your cats at all times, as we do not like changes in our daily routines either, and we all have disagreements over things from time to time. God bless our feline friends.

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Passing The Baton

I Had A Dream About A Dear Friend That Died Last Night

We were gathered in church, and she called me up to the front to give a talk about passing the baton. All of her family was also in church. I didn’t know what to say right away, so two other women came forward and spoke to the congregation. My friend kept looking at me, and at that moment I knew what ot say. I said that I thought passing the baton in church was about carrying on a person’s legacy that you held dear. I said I would accept carrying her baton proudly. I said that I would be kind and considerate to all I meet on life’s Highway, as she always was. I had this dream as I was asking her why I was still here, and she said I was to carry her baton and then pass my baton to someone else someday. She told me I had a lot to offer to the world yet, and never give up, that God has a higher purpose for me.

I Was Watering My New Trees, And A Female Cardinal Was Singing Away Gleefully

I think the cardinal represents all the wonderful women in my life who have passed on. As I kept listening to the Cardinals’ song, it was as if she were singing my name. Listening to the cardinal brought joy and sadness. But the cardinal was telling me to carry on and that God would protect me 24/7 if I kept my faith that with God by my side, all things are possible. Listen for God in the sounds of nature and in quiet moments, and reflect on all that God has done for you.

The Baton Leads A Parade Or Cheers People On

My friend told me to cheer people on, as we all need someone to cheer us on in life. She said that I was kind, knowledgeable, and strong, and that I should use my qualities to help others. If you lead people in life, do it with respect and kindness, and never ask anyone to do something that you would not do yourself.

Adgility And The Baton

You have to be agile and have good timing to twirl your baton, and good coordination so that you do not drop it. The whole marching band is following you, so you must not skip a beat.

Pass Your Baton To Someone That Will Respect And Honor You

We pass our baton to family, friends, and people we meet when we help them and protect them from unforeseen events in their lives. We are by our friends in good times and in bad times, and by their side when they die, as we love them dearly, and we try to carry their baton proudly until we pass it to someone else. Don’t worry about things, as God is always with you. God has always sent the right people into my life at the exact time I needed them most. Who are you carrying a baton for?

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Up On The Shelf

What Do You Have Up On Your Closet Shelf?

You may have old photo albums, towels, rugs, clothing, sheets and pillows, hats, gloves, and much more. When we put things up on the very top shelf, we may forget what we have stored away there. If I haven’t used something for ten years or more, I discard it, as I’m unlikely to want to use it again.

Dishes, Bowls, and More On Your Kitchen Cupboard Shelves

I have gone through my kitchen cupboard shelves and eliminated many items that I never used, which were just in the way, as I had to clean them when I cleaned my kitchen cupboards. We all have a favorite set of dishes, mixing bowls, and glasses that we always want to use without fail. I sold items that I no longer used, or I gave them to a charity of my choice.

Pots And Pans In Kitchen Cupboards And More

We have favorite pans for frying, boiling, or sautéing foods. Sometimes, when a new type of skillet comes along, we prefer it to our old one. I like to help someone who has lost everything due to a fire or other disaster by donating any extra pans that I have.

Curio Cabinet

We can have too many curios where the shelves look too full. Get rid of any curios that you have become tired of, as that will show off your collection much better than a jammed pack curio cabinet. I love cat curios the most, so I kept all of those.

Books In Your Bookcase On The Shelves

If you have finished reading some of your books, give them away. All of us have favorite books that we can read over and over again without ever tiring of them. If you have a favorite old book, consider giving it to someone who will treasure it as much as you do. I hope you never leave your Bible on the bookcase shelf, as you should read passages from the Bible frequently. The Bible is a book that guides us through life, helping us to distinguish right from wrong and to be kind, compassionate, and considerate to all we meet on life’s journey. The Bible remains relevant to us today, as people continue to face the same problems and challenges in their lives that they have faced for many years.

Basement Sheeving

I have paint, work tools, cleaning compounds, lightbulbs, and small appliances on some of my basement shelves. I have a cupboard in my basement that contains paint, clothes, curtains, rugs, hats, work gloves, and an electric teapot. I have another cupboard that includes light bulbs, toasters, a coffee maker, and other miscellaneous items. We all need places to store things, but it’s essential to avoid storing too much, as this can lead to clutter and disorganization. Clean your sleeves and ensure that the things that you treasure reach the people you want to share them with, or you keep them. Declutter often, as you will have a tidier home, and it will be much easier to keep clean.

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Idle Time

Reading

I love to read history books, especially ones about World War 2. Reading is terrific in idle time, as you can delve into a good book and learn a lot of interesting historical, scientific, and other things that will add to your array of knowledge. Every day, we should strive to learn something new. Reading a good book or magazine article can be a relaxing way to end a day when you are tired.

Exercise

I love to walk and pick up sticks that I see lying in the yard, as well as anything that may have blown in, and dispose of them properly. Riding a bike is an excellent form of exercise, and it is very relaxing as the wind blows through your hair. I notice birds and other animals while I ride my bike. Walking is one of the best exercises for your heart, mental well-being, and overall health.

Sitting On Your Deck

It is fun to sit on your deck and visit with friends while enjoying refreshments or using your barbecue grill. You can also sit in the shade on your deck, read a book, or work outdoors on your computer. I love the great outdoors, and having a deck is perfect for me because I can sit up high and have a bird’s-eye view of what is happening. I saw a fox run by and a deer, and I watched the birds that came up to our bird feeders. I have witnessed blue jays, woodpeckers, house finches, goldfinches, brown thrashers, bluebirds, cardinals, red-winged blackbirds, scarlet tanagers, and the more common birds at our bird feeders.

Vacations

I love to take a vacation now and then, as you will come home with a lifetime of precious memories that no one can take away. I love learning about the history of each country and admiring its architecture. I love Switzerland and enjoy admiring its beautiful mountains. Germany, England, Amsterdam, Czechoslovakia, and Switzerland were my favorite countries to see and visit. Try the signature food dishes in each country, and you will be pleasantly surprised by the excellent taste and seasonings. If you collect something small, taking home a souvenir from each country is a fantastic way to remember the store, the country, and the good time you had finding your collectible. Take plenty of pictures while you travel, as they are fun to look back on over the years. I love Colorado, Wyoming, Illinois, Ohio, South Dakota, Minnesota, Iowa, Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, and Virginia in the USA. I have always enjoyed traveling in Canada and shopping in their stores.

Volunteer

Volunteering at something you love can be very relaxing and rewarding. I enjoy visiting with people in Assisted Living Units or Nursing Homes. You can volunteer at hospitals, food banks, community kitchens, and mission work wherever needed.

Eating Out Or Going Places With Friends

Spending a quality day with friends or going on a trip with them is very relaxing and rewarding. I love eating at small family-owned restaurants, exploring the mom-and-pop stores, and finding something good to take home. You may discover appliances, shoes, clothes, furniture, and more that you’d like to purchase. Ensure you drive a vehicle with ample cargo space to haul your find-of-the-day home.

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