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Rejection

Rejection Of Your Offer Or Proposal

A lot of us get rejected now and then. If we write a book, we may get many rejections before it gets accepted to go to print. We may make an offer on a car or home, and it may take a while before you reach a mutual agreement that both parties can live with. As an architect, you may have to make many revisions to the building, home, roadways, or new bridge drawings before they get approved. We need to have some of our ideas rejected so we learn to develop better plans and ideas in the future. Continuous rejection can break a person down forever.

Social Rejection

You may be rejected to play on a baseball team in school if they do not think you can run fast enough. You may always be the last person in your class choices to compete in sporting events. I have seen groups of adults leave one individual out of their group, and the poor, rejected person is left alone. Do not exclude people from your groups because they do not fit in. Remember that someday you may be dismissed from a group and think, how would I feel? The person you leave today could be sick or ill and win gold metals later in life. Social rejection harms a child for life. Some children rejected from groups grow up to be dangerous criminals if they do not get the necessary help they need. The child may feel something is wrong with them and withdraw from people more and more to avoid social rejection down the road. Everyone has something they can contribute to the group if you give them a chance. Many famous people have been rejected, from actors to government officials. Everyone on earth is never left from knowing God’s love.

God And Rejection

Anyone Who Rejects Christ will be in Hell. God will forgive a man that genuinely repents of his sins. People go to Hell because they do not repent from their sins. You are doomed to destruction if you keep doing the same evil repeatedly.     Luke 10:16     The one who hears you hears me, the one who rejects you rejects me, and the one who leaves me rejects him who sent me.

Rejection Of New Organs Or Things

When any foreign object is placed in our body, our immune system kicks into overdrive to destroy the invader before it kills us. We must take anti-rejection drugs for the rest of our lives to trick our bodies into thinking that the new organ is part of our body. We do not like changes in our lives, so some of us try to reject technological advancements. Modern technology can be challenging. Many lives have been saved by modern technology. Like it or not, change is a constant part of life, so we may as well live with it and not reject it.

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Getting Through Dark Days In Your Life

Getting Through Dark Days In Your Life

Try To Keep Busy

When I have a dark day, I try to keep busy completing tasks around the house. The busier I am, the less darkness there is in my life. If you sit around and think about your problems, you will soon have many more problems. Try to get out with friends when you have a dark day. I love to listen to 3 different sermons every Sunday as the sermons motivate and rejuvenate me. Idle hands are the devil’s workshop. I love gardening, mowing lawns, reading, writing a blog posts, and more. I watch my favorite TV programs from years ago.

Treat Yourself On A Dark Day

Go to a farmers’ market or a bakery and buy some of your favorite baked goods. You could get a manicure or a pedicure or have a spa day, as you will feel better than if you are worn out, rest, and relax. You could go shopping and buy yourself a new pair of shoes or a new outfit. I like to buy Christmas presents early for my friends, so I do not have to do last-minute shopping. Completing tasks ahead of time removes much stress and frustration from your life. I never wait until the last minute for anything that I do in my life. If you need surgery, schedule it as soon as possible, so you do not have to think about it. Try to keep darkness out of your life by praying to God without ceasing and keeping busy with things you enjoy doing.

A Horrible Illness In Your Life

You or a friend may be suffering from a horrible illness. You probably feel like there is a dark cloud hanging over your life. Talk to your friend and encourage them to keep up the fight as long as possible. You can conquer some illnesses and diseases with good friends and God by your side, Never stay focused on what is wrong with you; instead, focus on what is right with you. Having friends by your bedside can make all the difference in the World whether you live or die. A good friend will remind you of what you have to live for and what you can still accomplish in life. Praying to God to guide you through this challenging disease will give you more guidance than you ever considered possible. God has things for us to accomplish before we leave this World, and we need to attune to them.

Dark Skies And Stormy Days

Remember, there will always be thunderstorms, tornadoes, floods, earthquakes, and many more storms. The darkness will finally leave after the storm passes over, and blue skies will shine through again. Blue skies will shine through your life after the dark storms have passed by in your life. God helps us get through the storms in life and allows us to reach out to you in your darkest hours, so you will see God’s light shining in your life.

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When Things Start To Topple Over In Your Life

When Things Start To Topple Over In Your Life

Keep Your Life In Balance

Do not over-extend yourself. Set realistic goals to accomplish in one day. After all, Rome was not built in one day. If you have a long list of things to complete, cut the list in half and do the other things the next day. If you feel overwhelmed, you will not get much done today. Take time to relax during your day. If you keep up a steady pace all day, you will be completely worn out the next day. Remember, the turtle won the race, and the hare came in second. Slow and steady wins the race every time. Take time to exercise at a leisurely pace every day. Get together with friends often and put a smile on each other’s faces. Know your priorities and get those done at the start of your day. Do the easier task at the end of your day. Make time for yourself in the day and learn to say no because you have to take care of yourself and defend your boundaries.

Get Rid Of Some Of The Things That Stress You Out In Your Life

If you have a house that needs constant repair, get rid of it and buy another home you can afford. If you own a car that never seems to take you from point A to point B, sell it and replace it with a dependable vehicle. If you own any machine breaking down regularly, try to replace it with a newer model. Constant stress takes a toll on your body and will rid you of good years that you could have had without all the stress. Do not dwell on what could have been as it is in the past, and you cannot change the outcome. Do not keep reliving some horrible event, as that will rob you of your future and what could have been a wonderful and rewarding day. Do not let other people control you, as only you know what you can physically get accomplished in one day.

Keep God And Good  Friends By Your Side

When you are feeling stressed, talk about it with a trusted friend who can offer sound advice on relieving you of some of the stress in your life. Two heads are better than one when coming up with an excellent solution to a problem. Pray to God daily to guide you in your life. With God’s guidance, you should be able to remove some of the stress in your life. Tell God your problems in your prayers, and he will help you devise a solution in his time frame to help you feel that you will not topple over in your life. Your life will not topple over if you have faith, balance, and less stress. God, thank you for helping me keep balance in my life.

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Life Is Full of Mistakes

Life Is Full Of Mistakes

 Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Do you do the opposite of what you say you will do? People Judge you by your actions. If you want people to treat you with the utmost respect, treat them with the utmost care. If you say you will help someone with something, you better do it. People soon learn they cannot count on you if you do not allow them when needed. Someday you will need help, and I know you will want people to show up on time to help you out. Always remember to pass it forward. If someone helps you or buys food, do it for someone else. If your actions today did not represent you well, make sure that your actions tomorrow do.

Mistakes Occur Constantly In Life

I hope you learn from your mistakes and do not repeat them. If you made a mistake adding a bill and it is in your favor, go back to the person you short-changed and give him the money due to him. Tell him you made a mistake and are sorry for any inconvenience caused him. When you make a mistake, fix it immediately and be apologetic. If you hit someone when you were trying to put your coat on because they were standing close to you, apologize. If you break merchandise in a store, offer to pay for what you broke and tell them you did not do it on purpose and that it was an accident. We may make a mistake when we are supposed to have an appointment with someone. Call them, tell them you did not get the time right, and let them set the time and date for the next meeting.

Kids And Mistakes

You may make a mistake in playing a board game that you never played before. Different games have different rules, and it takes a while to get used to the other regulations for the other games, and lots of mistakes will be made. Remember to train your children not to make fun of the younger children just because they do not know how to play games or have all the answers to daily problems. We all learn something new every day, and no one on earth has all the answers, no matter how smart they are.

 

God And Mistakes

God knows we are not perfect by any means. God tries to lead us in the right direction in life. Some of us drift off the path, and others seem to make their path. If you get on the wrong way, ask God to help you get back on the right track quickly. God is my lighthouse and my anchor in life. Jesus died for our sins because all of us make mistakes in life.

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Why Do We Collect Things ?

Why Do We Collect Things ?

Children’s Collections

Most young children have a rock collection or shell collection. Children are attracted to bright shiny objects and small items that they can take with them easily. A child will pick up any rock that is of interest to them, As a child grows older, they get pickier about the stone they pick out. Sea shells are easy to pick up and do not weigh much. Your child is interested in the different shapes of the bodies and will ask you how they were formed. Some children have a kid’s book collection, dolls, toy cars, electronic games, comic books, leaves, stuffed animals, and so much more that they collect. Children are drawn to things they see in stores or nature. A child will soon start collecting things that pique their interest.

Adult Collections

Some people may have a shed of antique cars, trucks, etc. Coin collections might grow in value if you acarefully pick out coins with no flaws. Women may have fancy shoes, purses, and designer clothing adorning their closets. Men may buy a fancy old plane or boat that they use on weekends.

We Collect Things That Piqued Our Interest Years Ago

If we had a small toy car we loved as a child, we might buy a large version of it as an adult. If we could not afford to buy what we wanted years ago, we may purchase it now that we are older and have the money to do so. Some women buy lavish jewelry. I think fabulous jewelry is a total waste of money. Some men may buy a Rolex watch or some other fancy timepiece. If you notice a particular old toy you had as a child in a store, you may purchase it because it brings back fond memories of a carefree, happy-go-lucky time in your life. Maybe you liked a famous painting by a particular artist years ago, and now have an art collection of his most famous paintings.

You May Add To An Inherited Collection

If you inherited a collection of bells, salt and pepper shakers, spoons, or something else, you add to that collection if you like it. I had a spoon, salt, pepper, and a toy car collection. I have sold my readers. Some people have to buy two of everything. I have read that people that have two of everything have a fear of being alone. Collect everything in moderation. After all, too much of anything looks horrible and disorderly. Don’t go to every garage sale or auction to buy something to add to a collection that is turning into an addiction or hoarding problem. Remember to be very picky about what you collect so you will not have too many as the collection will overpower your home, and your home will look cluttered, and no one will appreciate your collection.

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Think Positive Thoughts

Think Positive Thoughts

Look For The Good In Things

Sometimes it is tough to see the good in things. If you have an illness or a disease, do not let it define and overpower you. Think of what you can still do and accomplish with your condition. You may have to hire more things done because you can no longer do them psychically. You now have time to pursue some of the hobbies you have put on the back burner for years. Please talk about your illness with other people and see what they do to stay happy. If you think of your disease as a death sentence, it will become a death sentence much sooner than if you had not dwelled on it night and day. Educate others about your illness and help them instead of concentrating on yourself. I love the song I heard years ago, and my Mother said never forget the words in that song. The piece said nothing would break my stride; I must keep moving now. I never realized at the time how powerful the words in that song would be in my life to keep me happy. I try not to let things break my stride and keep moving forward. Life is too precious not to enjoy every single moment of it. I have more places to see and more things to do, and I intend to accomplish my goals. God is my beacon in the night and guiding light to keep moving and spreading God’s good works.

One Problem After The Other

Problems can be solved relatively soon if you get on them right away. It is hard to have positive thoughts if you let issues build up and never address them. Keep on top of your life, so a snowball does not become an avalanche. You’re mistaken if you think a problem will suddenly disappear because you ignore it. Tell yourself that you will solve at least one problem today when you get up in the morning. If you keep solving the problems, you will begin to see life in a positive light. If you think you are beaten, you will be destroyed. Tell yourself that you can win and will likely succeed in what you set out to do in life.

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What is Your Domain ?

What Is Your Domain?

What Does Your Domain Say About You?

Your domain name represents what your business has to offer people. Your domain makes your business or breaks your business. Be very careful what you write on your website. Do not use foul language or offer services that you cannot provide. Your domain name makes your business look credible. Tell people why they should take time to read what you put on your website. Your domain name says volumes about you. Your domain name should say what interests and excites you about your business. Include pictures and videos of what you sell in your business on your website, as people are drawn to images and videos. If an image is inappropriate for young people to see, do not post it anywhere. Domain names tell people what is unique and how you can help others with your knowledge and business skills.

What If You Had A Domain Name That Represented  You As A Person

What name would you give yourself, as there would be many choices? What would you call yourself on your website – wise, kind, caring, loving, joyful, peaceful, comfortable, or giving? I hope you would not have to say selfish, non-forgiving, know it, money lover, or that you were a non-caring person. You may say you are thoughtful of others’ needs and put them before yours. You may say you collect cars or have an extensive rock collection. What do you genuinely think you would name a website that represented you to the world? I hope you will give the domain name much thought and make it as accurate as possible. What domain name would God bless you regarding how you act as a child of God? Your domain name speaks volumes about your actions and deeds.

The Government Has Eminent Domain Over Land And Hi – Ways

If you own a piece of land they want to make a significant Hi-Way, the Government will declare eminent domain if you do not sell it to them for the price they offered. You may be able to get more if you find out what your neighbors are getting for their land. We genuinely do not own land, as we are stewards of the land. I hope you do not have to sell your land or house because of eminent domain.

Gods Domain

It is the entire heaven, earth, and universe. God Bless you every day.

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Struggles People Endure

Struggles People Endure

Job-Related Problems

You may have to work with someone constantly criticizing your work daily. Your job could be more than you can handle psychically. Some people you work with might be getting paid much more than you are for the same kind of work. On a job site, two men had to lift a 600-pound door, and they permanently ended up with back damage. A woman told me she was required to lift 100 pounds daily, and she has terrible arthritis everyday day now in her old age. Some jobs demand more of a person than even a very young person could do what they want you to do. Try to find a position where the employers do not demand more of you than anyone could do alone. Hopefully, you will find your dream job and do something that you love to do that will help you and others.

Family Issues

Some people grow up in families constantly arguing about all kinds of things day and night. They may say about how to raise the kids, or they may not pay enough attention to their kids. Children need endless love, concentration, and discipline if they do something they know is wrong. A family may argue over who gets paid more, and they may become jealous that their spouse is getting paid more than they are. I was blessed to be raised by excellent, loving, and caring parents.

People Who Have Health Issues

If you have lost limbs, you must struggle to prepare in the morning, and daily tasks become much more challenging. Cancer patients must work with chemo treatments and go back and forth to the Doctor. Cancer patients struggle to do family activities as they are worn out from chemo and cancer and its effects on their bodies. My Mother and several friends died of ALS. ALS is a devastating disease that destroys your whole body except your mind. ALS patients do not send synapses to their nerves. Therefore, their muscles waste away, causing death in 5 years or less in most ALS patients. Never judge someone that is sick because you have no idea whatsoever of what they en-dour every single day of their life.

Hunger and Housing

Many people worldwide go to bed hungry at night or cold because they do not have a roof over their heads. People sleep in cardboard boxes, abandoned buildings, freight cars, or wrapped up in blankets. If you see a hungry person, offer to take them to a restaurant and feed them. If you have any food with you at all, give it to them. People need affordable housing as no one should have to be homeless. As good stewards, we should do what Jesus did and always help the hungry, poor, oppressed, and anyone who needs a helping hand to get through their struggles in life.

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The World Is Full Of Music If You Just Listen To The Notes

The World Is Full Of Music If You Just Listen To The Notes

The Notes In Nature

The gentle pitter-patter of rain falling has its rhythm. A soft, gentle rain is like listening to classical music. When the rain has loud claps of thunder and lightning bolts that light up the skies, it’s like listening to complex rock music; birds have all kinds of chirps, such as soft, gentle little chirps to the sharp sound of the majestic eagles call. Morning doves make a cooing noise which is called a wing whistle. The claps of the ocean waves are alive with the sounds of music. The ocean sounds are like a complete orchestra out on the water. Small little streams make a rippling noise as the water moves along slowly. The mooing of a cow or the baa of a sheep has its notes if you listen to them. A cat’s meow or purr is very musical. A Siamese cat can sound like a baby, and a Maine Coon cat can chirp. People’s voices can be very musical. It can be very relaxing to listen to the gentle, comforting voice. If someone yells or screams at you, it sets your nerves on fire, such as loud overpowering music. Whales make calls to each other that echo through the water. Dolphins communicate as they send out different tones and sounds to each other that help them find food or warn them of danger. Gorillas will beat their chest as it makes a noise similar to drums. Take time to listen to the notes in nature, and you will soon realize that the World is truly musical.

 Motor Vehicles

Listen to the motor on your car today, and you will hear it hum away. Depending on the engine in your vehicle, you will listen to a soft or throaty hum. All kinds of emergency vehicles make different sounds so we can quickly identify them. You can hear the backup bell ding on a gravel truck. Listen to the sound your airplane makes next time you vacation. It has a loud noise when you are taking off, and then it has a gentle purr when it is on automatic pilot. Steam engines have a hissing noise as the steam is released. The old train engines chug down the tracks. The new diesel trains have a distinct sound, and you cannot miss the noise it makes as it approaches a railroad crossing. You can hear your ‘motorboat notes as it breaks the waves of the water. Motorcycles can be very quiet or so noisy that you can hardly hear yourself think. Some people will drill a hole in the muffler to make it sound loud.

It Is A Musical World

Swinging in a swing set makes a creaking noise as you turn back and forth. Children’s voices are music to your ears. As we type away, the keyboard becomes a musical instrument providing valuable information for others. God made music in the World we must listen to and appreciate daily. God bless you with music in your heart and your soul.

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Your Most Important Relationship Is Your Relationship With God

Your Most Important Relationship Is Your Relationship With God

Your Relationship With God

Your relationship with God will impact your relationships with others. If you do not have a close relationship with God, you will never have a solid or intimate relationship with others. How to keep an excellent relationship with God.

  • Read your Bible
  • Pray
  • Obey
  • Serve
  • Gratitude

By reading your bible, you form a closer and more meaningful relationship with God. Pray without ceasing; as you know, God will answer your prayers in his time frame. Obey the ten commandments as it is not called the ten suggestions. Serve others with a grateful and caring heart. Have gratitude for all that God has given you.

Family Relationships

Do not get in fights with your family members. Some families have broken apart when a parent dies because they felt cheated out of some inheritance. If your parent were still alive, would they be pleased with your behavior? I think not. When a parent dies, they are required to give anyone money or property when they pass on. Some people feel entitled to inheritance. People are not entitled to anything when someone passes on. Get along with your brothers and sisters. Get along with your cousins. You will have many regrets later in life if you fight with family members on trivial matters in the scheme of things.

 

Acquaintances

How you treat others says volumes about yourself. Treat all acquaintances with the respect they deserve. Treat them fairly and kindly. Be friendly to your co-workers and get to know them. Take the people you work with out for lunch or coffee. Praise your employees for a job well done. Workers treat the business where they are working as if it was their own business. Do not show up late to work or take the day off just because you feel like it. Put yourself in your employer’s shoes. Be grateful for your job, employer, and co-workers. How you perform on your job says how you act as a person.

Marriage

Treat your husband or wife with the utmost respect. Never yell at or threaten each other. Keep your marriage vows as they are between you and God. Treat your spouse as you want your spouse to treat you. Praise each other, and be caring, kind, compassionate, loving, hopeful, joyful, and peaceful. Be kind to your children and never threaten or hurt them. It is better to have a millstone tied around your neck and drown than to harm one of God’s little ones in any way. Children are a gift from God; you should cherish and protect your little ones at all costs. Ensure your children form a long-lasting and beautiful relationship with God. Encourage them to read the bible and keep the Lord’s day holy. Have your children say their bedside prayers before they go to bed at night. Take your children to church, as children do learn from examples. Your marriage vows were given before God. God is part of your marriage and all of your relationships with others. Make sure you see God shining through in your relationships with others every day.

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