Do not be judgmental of people. You have no idea whatsoever of the battle scars and hardships they have gone through in their life. It might seem small to you, but it has completely changed your outlook on life. We all have some battle scars that we carry with us every day.
The baggage that we carry with us affects our relationships with other people directly and indirectly. We may wear a suit of armor when we meet someone for the first time. We may think the other person has one up on us, and we must always be on guard for self-preservation.
Being made fun of or picked on stays with you. You wonder if it will happen to me again soon. If you cannot treat a person as you want to be treated, stay away from that person and let them live their life in peace and harmony. Teasing is sometimes a form of bullying if it goes on too long.
If you do not like how someone dresses, they may not like how you dress, either. We have the right to choose our attire as we see fit. We tend to wear clothes that we feel comfortable in and warm in. Some want the latest and trendiest fashions, while others don’t care about fashion trends. Styles come and go.
You have no idea what a person’s home life or job is like. Some of us get the ideal job while o, others get a job that they can barely make ends meet. If your mate has a horrible job, they will not feel like cooking, doing chores, and other household repairs. Let them rest, relax, and discuss their day with each other. Treat yourselves to a night out on the town once in a bit.
Always remember you have no clue whatsoever as to what a person has endured or gone through in their lifetime. Some people can bounce back from adversity, and others will carry the load on their backs forever. Be kind, caring, and considerate of other people’s feelings, and remember, only God can judge someone.
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