Live Your Life, Not Someone Else’s
Do not let someone tell you what job they want you to do. You choose your career because you will never like your job or be good at it if you don’t. You must have a job that fulfills you and completes you in life. Sometimes, an older person might try to live their dreams through you, which is wrong. God has a unique purpose for everyone, and never let someone take God’s purpose for your life away from you. God always knows what is best for you, so follow your life dreams and not the dreams that a relative or friend may have for you.
Health Decisions
Never ask a family member if you should have surgery or not. Your health is up to you, and if you want the surgery, go for it, and if you do not do it on your own accord, and not on the advice of others. Ask your doctor about any concerns you may have about the surgery and if the surgery will take away any pain you are going through. Have the surgery, as no one wants to live in constant pain. Life has many complex decisions, so make sure the one you ask questions about surgery has your best interest at heart.
Vacations
Some people do not like to travel, but their spouse does, and they feel they have to stay home with their spouse. If your spouse does not want to travel, find a good friend to travel with. I have had married couples tell me they wanted to travel, but their spouse did not, and now they regret it because they waited too long to travel and have health concerns that do not permit them to travel anymore. Do not let anyone take away your travel dreams. Travel opens up a beautiful new chapter in your life full of adventure, history, stunning scenery, and learning about the different countries’ histories, and that everyone wants the same things out of life, no matter where you travel. You never regret the wonderful vacation memories with your spouse or a dear friend.
Money
Money truly is the root of all evil. Some unsprulous people take advantage of senior citizens and ask them for money when they cannot afford to give them any money. Many nasty scammers go after senior citizens with insurance scams or ask them for money. If you do such a thing, you are the lowest form of human being possible. I cannot stand the stench that such an individual puts out. These people will have to answer to God someday for what they have done to God’s vulnerable flock. People should be givers and not takers. If you cannot give something to someone with joy in your heart, you have a serious mental problem.
Help Older People Have A Better Quality Of Life
Visit with them and give them gifts. Take them out for supper. Older friends love to go out for drives. Surprise them with a beautiful day that they will enjoy. It will make their day and yours extra special, with precious memories you will never forget. Remember, you can learn much from older people, as they are very wise. Treat your elders with the utmost respect always. God bless our senior citizens, for without them, we would not be here or have the knowledge that we have.
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