How Do You Relate To People?
Talk to them and really get to know them. Show a genuine interest in what they are doing. If they like cats, go to a cat show with them and do things they enjoy doing together. Be accepting of them just as they are. Be an attentive listener and genuinely care about their concerns, needs, and wants. Relate to people as you would like to have them relate with you. Be kind and patient with people. Remember you have to be a good and caring friend to have a caring friend.
Relationship With Your Spouse
A good relationship needs to have a lot of give and take. If your wife wants to go on a vacation and you do not compromise and go on at least one trip with her and you may be surprised by how much you actually enjoyed the trip. Never let any relationship be one-sided as someone will feel his or her feelings are being ignored. If your husband wants to go to a sporting event and you hate sports go with him anyway. You may like watching a baseball game with your husband as he talks about the best players and why they are on top of their A game. Learn to eat food that you may not like to appease your spouse and make them happy.
Relationships With Bussiness People
I want to establish a good relationship with my banker, lawyer, Doctor, accountant, repairmen, and more. You want people that you can trust and have total faith in to manage your business affairs. I never like it when my Doctor or lawyer retires as you have to build a brand new relationship which takes a lot of time to form trust and complete confidence in the person that took over. You must have complete confidence in anyone that knows all about your business and health. We want an investment banker to manage our money as he would his own. I trust all of my repairmen to treat me fairly and make top-quality repairs.
Relationships With Friends
Everyone wants a friend that they can rely on through thick and thin. Rainy day friends are there for you in difficult times when the rest of the World turns its back on you they are faithful to the end. Friends are like the flowers in the garden of life. When my friends are ill or sick I try to help them and be there for them and get them the items they need. When my friends are ill I feel ill as my friend’s concerns become my top concerns. Be a friend that is there for the long haul. Life is full of happy and not-so-happy days. Be the light that shines brightly to help lift up friends when they are sick, lonely, frightened and they need you the most.
Relationships With Business Owners
If a business offers you top-quality service thank them and be appreciative that they went the extra mile for you. Tell your friends that you were very pleased with their business. I buy at the same stores over and over again after I have learned to trust them and know that they will stand behind what they sell. Shop locally and support the privately owned small stores.
Your Relationship With God
Your relationship with God is your most important relationship of all. Treat God with the utmost respect, love, and kindness, and follow the Ten Commandments as it is not called the ten suggestions. Praise God for all of your many blessings. Praise God in song, and by what you do and say. God is my lighthouse that shines ever so brightly in my life. Praise be to God.
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