Show The Same Respect To People That You Would Like To Receive Back
When you care for someone, they have put their trust in you. Do not let them down. Never yell or scream at a sick person. They cannot help that they are ill and need help. I had a mean nurse once, and I had an accident, and she told me I better clean it up or she would hit me. She was a large woman, and I could not defend myself then, so I cleaned up the mess to the best of my ability. I reported her to the hospital when I returned home. If people would only think they may be sick themselves someday and is that the way I would want to be treated, their answer would be no. God wants us to take care of the ill and the elderly as he tends to all of his children. We must treat people kindly, fairly, compassionately, and lovingly. If you are a caregiver, tend to the person you care for correctly. If you do not treat people right, God will be your Judge someday.
What I Have Witnessed In Some Care Centers
I had a relative in a care center, and they always put the water container in a far corner where the person could not reach it. I asked an aide one day why they did that, and her answer was we do not have to take them to the bathroom as often if we do that. I told her she better moves the water where they could reach it easily. One party could not feed himself, and the worker supposed to provide for him went outdoors and smoked. I reported what I saw to the head person, but nothing changed. If you have a loved one in a care facility, ensure they have an advocate to help them. I overheard an LPN tell the RN she gave a woman the wrong pill, which ended up killing her, and she said keep your mouth shut. They will think she died of natural causes. Some care centers should have classes teaching people how to care for the sick and elderly in a compassionate, kind, loving, comforting, and peaceful way. People have feelings and needs. Treat everyone as you would want to be treated or as God would treat them.
Never Start Removing Items From Somone’s Home That Is Old, Sick Or Dying Until They Have Passed On
Some people are like hungry vultures. It is rude, crude, and cruel to start giving someone’s things away before they have passed on. One party heard her kids saying we can sell this for that much and that for this much when she dies. They will be left out in the cold of their greed if she changes her will. Once she turned ninety, one lady had her children remove things from her home. They took some of her rings and items that belonged to her husband. She asked them to return them to her. They did produce some of her things. To her surprise, one lady had her son start giving her things away to the neighbors. Do you want your children to act that way when you get sick, old, or die? I am sure your answer is no. It is like people are throwing dirt in or on your face before you are dead. Act like God would want you to act, and everyone will be treated fairly and compassionately.
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