We Tend To Blame God When A Loved One Dies
There is a time to be born and a time to die. All things on earth have a season. Flowers bloom and look beautiful, then the blossoms tend to fall off until next year, when the process repeats. We especially blame God when a young person dies tragically. We tend to ask, “Why did God allow this to happen?” God made nature to be natural and unpredictable. God does not want our loved ones to die, but it is a part of nature. We live in a fallen world, and bad things tend to happen to everyone. We miss our loved one dearly and tend to blame someone at the time of their death, as it was actually no one’s fault. We must realize that our loved ones are at rest, with no pain, reunited with those who have gone on before them and with our heavenly Father, and what a glorious reunion that will be when we join them someday.
When Something Terrible Happens To A Loved One
Perhaps a family member suddenly goes blind. God could have a higher calling for them. Maybe they will teach Braille someday or educate others about what it’s like to be blind. I had a Great Uncle who was blind, and the thing that upset him most was when kids would leave their bikes on the sidewalk that he might trip over. He spoke to the town council, and that issue got fixed. People have lost limbs and still have done remarkable things with their lives. One girl became an excellent surfboard rider with one leg missing, and one woman became a pilot with both arms missing, flying a plane designed for her. God helps people find a way in life if they look for it and are determined enough to accomplish their goal.
We Will Have Many Bad Times, and with God’s help, we can turn those around.
Always focus on the positive things in your life, such as God will always love you and be there for you. If you are fighting a terrible illness or disease, ask God to help you get through the days of treatment and days of not feeling up to par. God will help lead you in the right direction if you listen to subtle clues. start a new hobby, join a club, learn to play a musical instrument, as this will take your mind off your illness and give you a positive outlook on life, telling yourself I can beat this disease and help others, too. Go out with friends often, as social people tend to live longer than those who stay at home and overthink things. Keep busy, as a busy person does not have time to fret and worry. Put God first and then friends and family. Families with a strong bond and connection pray at night and ask for God’s guidance, which helps turn bad times into times of growth and enrichment for the soul.
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